When creating a new object by linking to it with @ - it takes a while to be able to link to it again.
It appears that the first link creates that annoying icon and not the subsequent times linking to the object. So, I am removing the link and trying to relink and it's taking too long - I am confirming the new object has been created, it's just not appearing as an option to link to immediately like I think it used to.
What is the point of having that icon on the first link if it won't be there subsequently? It's annoying. Where I create the first link might be really random.